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Ngr;R - XH mUs;

Ngr;R NgRk; jpwd; vd;gJ ,iwtd; kdpjDf;F toq;fpAs;s kpfg; ngupaNjhH mUl;nfhilahFk;. kdpjid Vida capupdq;fspypUe;J NtWgLj;Jk; gpujhd mk;rq;fspy; xd;whf Ngr;R tpsq;Ffpd;wJ. ,jdhNyNa r%ftpay; mwpQHfs; kdpjid NgRk; gpuhzp vd tiutpyf;fzg;gLj;Jfpd;wdH.
jd;id mstw;w mUshsd; vd mwpKfg;gLj;Jk; my;yh`; jdJ NguUSf;F rhd;whf jhd; kdpjidg; gilj;J mtDf;Fg; NgRk; Mw;wiy toq;fpapUg;gijf; Fwpg;gpLfpd;whd;.

mstw;w mUshsd;@ FHMid mtd; fw;Wf;nfhLj;jhd; kdpjidg; gilj;J> mtDf;F NgrTk; fw;Wf; nfhLj;jhd;.(55: 1- 4)

Ngr;R XH MAjk;

Ngr;R vd;gJ XH mUs; kl;Lky;y mJ XH MAjk;. Jg;ghf;fpfshy;> gPuq;fpfshy; rhjpf;f Kbahjij XH mwpG+Htkhd> czHr;rpAld; $ba ciuapdhy; rhjpf;f KbAk; vd;gjw;F tuyhW rhd;W gfHfpd;wJ. jhd; ngw;wpUe;j ehtd;ikia itj;J kf;fisf; ftHe;J> mtHfis fl;b itj;j  cyif Mz;ltHfs; jhd; vj;jidg; NgH. ,jdhy; jhd; egp (]y;) mtHfs; “Ngr;rpy; xU tif trpak; cz;L” vd;whHfs;.
fj;jpapd;wp ,uj;jkpd;wp eil ngWk; Aj;jj;jpy; Ngr;Rk; vOj;JNk ,U ngUk; MAjq;fshFk;.
egp (]y;) mtHfspd; ,yl;rpa Nghuhl;lj;jpy; mtHfs; Muk;gkhfg; gad;gLj;jpa MAjk; Ngr;rhFk;.

Ngr;R xU fiy

Ngr;rhw;wiy tsHj;Jf; nfhs;s Ntz;Lk;@ Ngr;Rf;fis tpidj;jpwd; kpf;fjhf mikj;Jf; nfhs;s Ntz;Lk; vd tpUk;Gfpd;wtHfs; Muk;gkhf Ngr;R xU fiy vd;gij Gupe;J nfhs;sy; Ntz;Lk;.
Ngr;rhsHfs; gpwg;gtHfsh? my;yJ cUthf;fg;gLgtHfsh? vDk; tplaj;jpy; tuyhW neLfpYk; thjg; gpujpthjq;fs; epytpte;Js;sd. rpyH NgRtjw;nfd;Nw gpwf;fpd;whHfs;@ ehtd;ik vd;gJ mtHfspy; xd;wpg; gpwe;j jpwik@ ,jdhy; ,ay;ghfNt mtHfs; Ngr;rhw;wy; nfhz;ltHfshf ,Ug;ghHfs;” vd rpyH thjpLtH. ,jdhy; tpUk;gpNahH vy;yhk; Ngr;rhsuhf khwKbahJ vd;gJ ,tHfspd; thjkhFk;.
xUtH rpwe;j Ngr;rhsuhf tpsq;Ftjw;F mtupd; gpwg;gpay;G Kf;fpakhdJ vd;gij kWg;gjw;fpy;iy. xU Ngr;R ftHr;rpkpf;fjhf miktjpy; Fuy;tsk; Kf;fpaj;Jtk; ngWfpd;wJ. Fuy; tsk; vd;gJ gpwg;gpay;Gld; rk;ge;jg;gl;l nthd;whFk;. Mdhy; Ngr;ir tpidj;jpwd; kpf;fjhf mikj;Jf; nfhs;s Fuy;tsk; Nghd;w gpwg;gpay;Gfs; kl;Lk; NghJkhditay;y. ,tw;Wld; mwpT> gapw;rp> KjyhditAk; xU Ngr;rhsid cUthf;f Jiz Gupfpd;wd. ,e;j tifapy; xUtH Ngr;rhsuhf khWtjw;F ,ay;ghd jpwikAld; mwpTk;> gapw;rpAk; Njit vd;w cz;ik czug;gly; Ntz;Lk;.
Ngr;rhw;wiy tsHj;Jf; nfhs;tJ vg;gb?
Nkw;fz;l gpd;dzpapy; Nehf;Ffpd;w NghJ Ngr;rhw;wiy tsHj;Jf; nfhs;s ehd;F topfs; ,Ug;gijf; fhzyhk;.

  1. ,ay;ghd jpwik
  2. Ngr;Rf; fiy njhlHghd tpjpfs;> xOq;Ffs; gw;wpa mwpitg; ngwy;
  3. Gfo; ngw;w Ngr;rhsHfspd; eilfisf; fw;wy;
  4. Ngr;Rg; gapw;rp

Ngr;rhw;wy; vd;gJ xUtupy; Gije;J fplf;Fk; ,ay;ghd jpwikahf ,Uf;fyhk;. Mdhy; mJ njhlHNjHr;rpahd gapw;rpfSf; $lhfNt ntspf; nfhzug;glTk; tsHf;fg;glTk; KbAk;.
ehT XH cWg;ghFk;. mjidg; gapw;Wtpj;jhy; mJ gapw;rp ngWk;. gapw;rpfspd; %yk; iffSk; clYk; Rikfis Rkf;fg; gof;fg;gLtJ Nghy> eilgapw;rpapd; %yk;; elg;gjw;F fhy;fs; goFtJ Nghy Ngr;Rg; gapw;rpapd; %yk; ehT Ngr;Rf;F gapw;Wtpf;fg;gLfpd;wJ. vd;whHfs; fhypj; ,g;D ]y;khd; mtHfs;.

rpj;jpuk; ifg;gof;fk; nre;jkpo; ehg;gof;fk; vd;gJ jkpo; Nkijfspd; thf;fhFk;.

gpHmt;Df;F Kd;dhy; njspthfTk; ruskhfTk; Ngrf; $ba Mw;wiyj; jdf;Fj; jUk;gb egp %]h (miy) mtHfs; my;yh`;tplk; Nfl;l gpuhHj;jidia my;FHMd; Fwpg;gpLfpd;wJ:
vdJ ,with! vdJ neQ;ir tpupthf;fpitg;ghahf! vdJ fhupaj;ij vdf;F vspjhf;fpAk; itg;ghahf! vd; ehtpYs;s Kbr;ir mtpo;j;Jk; tpLthahf! (mg;NghJ jhd;) vdJ Ngr;ir mtHfs; tpsq;fpf; nfhs;thHfs;. (20 : 25-28)
Ngr;rpd; cs;slf;fKk; fl;likg;Gk; xU tplaj;ij RUf;fkhfTk; vspikahfTk; njspthfTk; ftHr;rpahfTk; jhf;fkpf;fjhfTk; Kd;itg;gjpNyNa xU Ngr;rpd; ntw;wp jq;fpAs;sJ. xU Ngr;ir ,t;thW mikj;Jf; nfhs;tjw;F ftdj;jpw; nfhs;s Ntz;ba rpy mk;rq;fs; ,Uf;fpd;wd. mtw;Ws; Kf;fpakhdtw;iw fPNo Nehf;FNthk;.

  1. cs;slf;fj;ij jpl;lkply;

Ngr;rpd; cs;slf;fj;ij jpl;lkpLk;NghJ ,uz;L Kf;fpakhd mk;rq;fs; ftdj;jpw; nfhs;sg;gly; Ntz;Lk;. mitahtd:

    1. Nfl;Nghiu (rigNahiu) mwpe;jpUj;jy;
    2. Ngr;rpd; fl;likg;ig jPHkhdpj;jy;

Nfl;Nghiu mwpe;jpUj;jy; vDk; NghJ Ngr;ir nrtpkLg;Nghupd; mwpTj;juk;> thOk; #oy;> vjpH Nehf;Fk; gpur;rpidfs; Kjyhdtw;iw mwpe;jpUg;gijf; Fwpf;Fk;.
Ngr;rpd; fl;likg;ig jPHkhdpf;Fk; NghJ gpd;tUk; mk;rq;fs; Kf;fpaj;Jtk; ngwy; Ntz;Lk;.

  1. jiyg;igj; jPHkhdpj;jy;
  2. Kd;Diu
  3. jiyg;ig gFg;gha;T nra;jy;
  4. jPHTfis Kd;itj;jy;
  5. KbTiu toq;fy;

Ngr;ir tpidj;jpwd; kpf;fjhf mikj;Jf; nfhs;s
xU Ngr;rpd; tpidj;jpwidAk; gad;gLj;jd;ikiaAk; mjpfupg;gjw;F Jiz GupAk; kw;Wk; rpy mk;rq;fs; gpd;tUkhW.

  1. ,il tplhj; njhlHr;rp (Continuity)

Ngr;rpd; NghJ fUj;Jf;fis rq;fpypj; njhluhf ,iltplhky; njhlHNjHr;rpahf mikj;Jf; nfhs;sy; Ntz;Lk;. Kjypy; Fwpg;gpl;l fUj;Jf;Fk; mLj;J nrhy;Yk; fUj;Jf;FkpilNa xU njhlHG ,Uj;jy; Ntz;Lk;. ciuia njhlHgWglhky; jHf;f uPjpahf tsHj;Jr; nry;yy; Ntz;Lk;.

  1. nrhw;NjHT (Diction)

xU Ngr;rpd; ntw;wpf;F nrhw;NjHT kpf Kf;fpakhdJ. ,e;j tifapy; Ngr;rpd; NghJ gpd;tUk; mk;rq;fs; ftdj;jpw; nfhs;sg;gly; Ntz;Lk;.

  1. rpwe;j> nghUj;jkhd nrhw;fisg; gad;gLj;Jjy;
  2. KjpHr;rpahd nrhw;gpuNahfq;fis ifahs;jy;
  3. Xir xOq;Fld; $ba nrhw;fSf;F Kf;fpaj;Jtk; mspj;jy;
  4. ,ilf;fpilNa vJif> Nkhidfis gad;gLj;Jjy;
  5.  ctikfs;> cUtfq;fs; Kjyhd nkhop tbtq;fis gpuNahfpj;jy;
  6. kf;fs; epidtpy; nfhs;sj;jf;f trdq;fisf; Fwpg;gpLjy;

mehfuPfkhd> nfhr;irahd> KjpHr;rpaw;w thHj;ijg; gpuNahfq;fis vg;NghJk; jtpHj;jy; Ntz;Lk;. mHj;jkw;w mLf;F nkhopiaAk; jtpHj;jy; Ntz;Lk;.
xg;Gjy; El;gq;fs;
Nkw; Fwpg;gpl;l tplaq;fSld; ciuia epfo;j;Jk; NghJ filgpbf;f Ntz;ba rpy xOq;FfisAk; Ngr;rhsH njupe;J itj;jpUg;gJ Kf;fpakhFk;. ,tw;iw xg;Gtpj;jy; El;gq;fs; (Delivery techniques) vd;gH.
cly; nkhopAk; (Body Language And Body Action) mgpeaKk; Ngr;rhsupd; mq;f mirTfSk; irf;fpidfSk; mgpeaKk; Ngr;rpd; tpidj; jpwid jPHkhdpf;Fk; mk;rq;fSs; Kf;fpaj;Jtk; ngWgitahFk;. cz;ikapy; njhlHghlhypd; NghJ thHj;ijfspd; Kf;fpaj;Jtk; 10 tPjk; kl;LNk vd;gJk; cly; nkhopNa 60 tPj Kf;fpaj;Jtj;ijg; ngWtjhfTk; Xir 30 tPj ,lj;ijg; ngWtjhfTk; DR. Stetven Covey vd;gtH $Wfpd;whH. ,f;$w;W Ngr;rpd; NghJ cly; nkhop ve;jsT Kf;fpaj;Jtk; ngWfpd;wJ vd;gijf; fhl;Lfpd;wJ.
xU Ngr;ir jhf;f kpf;fjhf mikj;Jf; nfhs;tjw;F filgpbf;f Ntz;ba xOq;FfSs; gpd;tUk; mk;rq;fSk; rpwg;gplk; ngWfpd;wd.

  1. ghHit %yj; njhlHG (Visual Contact)
  2. Xir (Voice)
  3. cug;G (Volume)
  4. RUjp (Pitch)
  5. Ngr;rpd; Ntfk; (Rate)
  6. Neu Kfhikj;Jtk; (Time Management)
  7. cil (Dress Code)

Kd;$l;bNa ey;y ey;y Kiwapy; jahH gLj;Jjy;> Nghjpa tpsf;fkspj;jy; Nfl;Nghiu MHt%l;ly; ,il ntsp tpl;Lg; NgRjy; Mfpa mk;rq;fs; njhlHghlypd; NghJ mtrpak; Ngzg;gl Ntz;Lk; vd N[hd; mlaH vd;gtH tpsf;Ffpd;whH.
egpfshupd; Kd;khjpup
u]{Yy;yh`; (]y;) mtHfspd; ciufis Muha;fpd;w NghJ mtw;Wy; gpd;tUk; rpwg;gk;rq;fis fhz Kbfpd;wJ:

  1. nrhw; RUf;fk;
  2. nghUl; nrwpT
  3. vspikahd thHj;ijg; gpuNahfq;fs;
  4. epWj;jp> epWj;jp ,il ntsp tpl;Lg; NgRjy;
  5. rpy tplaq;fis gy Kiw kPl;Ljy;
  6. cly; nkhopiag; gad;gLj;jy;
  7. ePz;l ciufisj; jtpHj;jy;
  8. cWf;fkhfg; NgRjy;

ehk; NkNy Fwpg;gpl;l midj;J tplaq;fSf;Fk; Nkyhf XH ciuapd; %yk; cupa jhf;fKk; tpisTk; Nfl;Nghupy; Vw;gLtjw;F Ngr;rhsupd; Md;kPf epiy ngupJk; Kf;fpaj;Jtk; ngWfpd;wJ. ,t;tk;rj;ijNa MkpH ,g;Dy; if]; (u`;) gpd;tUkhW Fwpg;gpLfpd;whHfs;:
“cs;sj;jpypUe;J ntspahd thHj;ij cs;sj;ijr; nrd;wilAk;@ ntWk; ehtpypUe;J ntspg;gl;l thHj;ij fhJfSf;F mg;ghy; fle;j nry;yhJ.
xU re;jHg;gj;jpy; ,khk; `]Dy; g]up xU khHf;fr; nrhw; nghopitf; Nfl;lhHfs;. Mdhy; mr;nrhw;nghopT md;dhupd; cs;sj;jpy; vj;jifa jhf;fj;ijAk; Vw;gLj;j tpy;iy. Fwpj;j nrhw;nghopthsiu mZfpa ,khk; mtHfs; mtiu tpopj;J> ~X kdpjNd! ahUila cs;sj;jpy; Fog;gk; fhzg;gLfpd;;wJ? ckJ cs;sj;jpyh? my;yJ vdJ cs;sj;jpyh?| vd tpdtpdhHfs;.
vdNt> Kf];Jjp> gpugy;a Nehf;fk;> NgH> Gfo; Kjyhd cyfhaj vjpHg;ghHg;Gf;fisj; jtpHj;J csj;J}a;ikAld; ,iw jpUg;jpia ehb epfo;j;jg;gLfpd;w ciufSk; Ngr;Rf;fSNk Nfl;Nghupy; jhf;fj;ijAk; khw;wj;ijAk; Vw;gLj;jty;yit vd;gij ehk; kwe;J tplyhfhJ.: Click Here

 

 

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