
ghypay; - XH ,];yhkpa ghHit
,d;iwa cyF ,Utifahd gilnaLg;GfSf;F Kfq;nfhLj;J tUfpd;wJ. mitahtd:
Kjy;tifg; gilnaLg;igg; NghyNt ,uz;lhk; gilnaLg;Gk; cyfpy; gaq;futpisTfis Vw;gLj;jp tUfpd;wJ.
'cyfkakhf;fy;" vDk; ngaupy; ,d;iwa cyfpy; jpzpf;fg;gl;LtUk; etPd fhydpj;Jtk; murpay;> nghUshjhu uPjpahd mnkupf;f jiyikapyhd Nkw;Fyfpd; Nkyhjpf;fj;ij cyfpy; tYtilar; nra;tij khj;jpukd;wp rpe;jdh uPjahfTk;> fyhrhu uPjpahfTk; cyif mbikg;gLj;JtijAk; ,yf;fhff; nfhz;bUf;fpwJ.
,e;j tifapy; Nkw;Fyfpd; cyfhaj> rlthj rpe;jidfSk;> fyhrhuKk; %d;whk; kz;ly ehLfspy; nghJthfTk; ,];yhkpa cyfpy; Fwpg;ghfTk; jpl;lkpl;l mbg;gilapy; mwpKfg;gLj;jg;gl;L tsHf;fg;gl;L tUfpd;wd. czTtiffs;> Fbghdq;fs;> cilfs;> eifr;Rit> fhl;^z;fs;> nkhop> ,ir> tpisahl;Lf;fs; Kjyhd rhjhuz mk;rq;fs; Kjy; midj;Jk; Nkw;Fyf fyhrhuj;ij gpujpgypg;gdthfNt mike;Js;sd.
cyfkkakhjYk; ghypay; rPHNfLfSk;
Nkw;Fyfk; Rje;jpukhd> fl;Lg;ghlw;w Mz;> ngz; cwit tpUk;Gfpd;wJ. vdNt> cyfkakhf;fy; %yk; cyfpd; Vida ehLfspYk; ,e;epiyia mJ cUthf;f tpUk;Gfpd;wJ. ,];yhkpa cyfpNyh fl;Lf;Nfhg;ghd FLk;g r%f mikg;G fhzg;gLfpd;wJ. vdNt> Nkw;FyF ,t;tpWf;fkhd mikg;ig jfHg;gjw;F jpl;lkpl;L nraw;gl;L tUfpd;wJ. jdJ Rje;jpukhd> vj;jifa jhHkPf> Md;kPf fl;Lg;ghLfSkw;w fyhrhuj;ij cyfkag;gLj;Jtjw;fhf mt;tg;NghJ rHtNjr khehLfisAk; elhj;jp tUfpd;wJ. rpy Mz;LfSf;F Kd;dhy; nfa;NuhtpYk;> gP[pdpYk; eilngw;w rdj;njhif khehLfis ,jw;F cjhuzkhf Fwpg;gplyhk;. ,k;khehLfspy; ngwg;gl;l jPHkhdq;fSs; gpd;tUtd Fwpg;gplj;jf;fitahFk;:
Mz;> ngz; ghy; NtWgl;il (Gender perspective) kWf;Fk; ,tHfs; fztd;> kidtp vd;w Gdpjkhd cwitAk; nfhr;irg;gLj;Jfpd;wdH. fztid tho;f;ifj;JiztH (Life Partner) vd;w mstpy; khj;jpuNk ,tHfs; mq;fPfupf;fpd;wdH. rl;luPjpaw;w Kiwapy; gpwf;Fk; Foe;ijfisf; $l Natural Baby vd mioj;J mq;fPfhuk; toq;Ffpd;wdH. jw;NghJ mjid Love Baby vd miof;f Kw;gl;Ls;sdH. ,t;thW fpof;Fyfpy; nghJthfTk;> ,];yhkpa cyfpy; Fwpg;ghfTk; Ngzg;gLfpd;w ,Wf;fkhd FLk;g mikg;ig rPHFiyf;f ifahsg;gLk; cj;jpfSs; gpd;tUtd Fwpg;gplj;jf;fitahFk;.
,t;thW njhlHghly; Clfq;fs;> gy;Njrpa fk;gdpfs; Kjyhdtw;Wf;$lhf Nkw;FyF jdJ fyhrhu jpzpg;ig ntw;wpfukhf Nkw;nfhz;L tUfpd;wJ. Holly Wood jpiug;glq;fspd; nry;thf;fpd; tpisthf Bolly Wood jpiug;glq;fSk; td;KiwiaAk;> Mghrj;ijAk; kpff;Nftykhf muq;Nfw;w Muk;gpj;Js;sd. ,yq;ifapy; jahupf;fg;gLk; jpiug;glq;fspy; $l xt;nthU ehd;fpYk; %d;W Mghrj; jpiug;glq;fshf mike;Js;sd. ,d;iwa rpdpkhf;fspy; fijapy;iy. ghlq;fNsh gbg;gpidfNsh ,y;iy. Fiwe;jJ nkhopiaahtJ fhz KbahJ. jkpo;> `pe;jp rpdpkhf;fspy; ,g;NghJ td;KiwiaAk; Mghrj;ijAk; jtpu NtnwijAk; ghHf;f KbahJ. Fwpg;ghf jkpo; rpdpkhg;ghly;fs; xU fl;Liuapy; cjhuzj;jpw;fhfNtZk; Nkw;Nfhs; fhl;l Kbahjstpw;F mUntWf;fj;jf;f Mghr tHzidfshf mike;Js;sd. ngz;fis Nghfg;nghUshfTk;> Nghijg;nghUshfTk; fhl;Lk; tifapNyNa ghly; tupfs; vOjg;gl;Ls;sd. tpufk; tpurkhfp> fhjy; ghYwthfp> fhjyHfs; fhKfHfshf rpj;jupf;fg;gLk; mtyj;ijj;jhd; ,d;iwa jkpo;r;rpdpkhtpy; fhzKbfpd;wJ.
Mghrj; jpiug;glq;fs;> ntg;jsq;fs;> tPbNahf;fs;> E}y;fs;> rQ;rpiffs; Kjyhdit Nkw;Fyfpw;F mjd; fyhrhuj;ij gug;Gtjw;fhd Clfq;fshf kl;Lkd;wp cyfehLfspd; nghUshjhuj;ij Ruz;Ltjw;fhd kpfr; rpwe;j topahfTk; mike;Js;sd. ,d;iwa cyfpd; kpfTk; ,yhgfukhd tpahghukhf Mghrj;ij re;ijg;gLj;JtJ fhzg;gLfpd;wJ.
Nkw;fz;l fl;Lg;ghlw;w Rje;jpu Mz;> ngz; cwT fyhrhuk; cyfkag;gLj;jg;gl;ljd; tpisit ,d;iwa cyfk; kpf Nkhrkhf mDgtpf;fj; Jtq;fpAs;sJ. ,d;W ,f;fyhrhuj;jpd; guty; kdpj r%fj;jpd; ,Ug;igNa mr;RWj;jptUfpd;wJ. ,f;fyhrhuj;jpd; Kf;fpa tpisTfs; gpd;tUkhW:
,d;iwa cyfpy; gw;wp vupfpd;w gpur;rpidahf khwpAs;s ghypay; rPHNfLfs; njhlHghd gpur;rpidf;F ,];yhk; $Wk; jPHTfis Muha;tNj ,f;fl;Liuapd; Nehf;fkhFk;.
,];yhkpa Nehf;fpy; ghypay;
Mz;> ngz; ,UghyhUf;FkpilNa ,iwtd; xU tif <Hg;ig ,ay;ghfNt itj;jpUf;fpd;whd;. ,jid ,df;ftHr;rp (Sex Appeal) vd;gH. grp> jhfk; vOtJ Nghy ghYzHTk; ,ay;ghd xd;whFk;. cyftho;T epiyg;gjw;Fk; ,dg;ngUf;fj;jpw;Fk;> kdpjFyk; cl;gl midj;J capupdq;fspd; ,Ug;Gf;Fk; topahf my;yh`; mikj;jpUg;gJ Mz;> ngz; cwitj;jhd;.
mZ Kjy; midj;ijAk; my;yh`; Mz;> ngz; vd Nrhb NrhbahfNt mikj;jpUf;fpd;whd;. kdpj cyfpy; khj;jpukd;wp kpUf cyfpYk; jhtu cyfpYk; midj;jpYk; ,r;Nrhb epiyiaf; fhzyhk;. ,g;NgUz;ikia my;FHMd; gpd;tUkhW tpsf;FfpwJ.
''NkYk; (ehk;) ePq;fs; gbg;gpidg; ngWtjw;fhf xt;nthd;wpYk; Nrhbfisg; gilj;Js;Nshk;."" (51:49)
''my;yh`; J}a;ikahdtd;. mtd; G+kp Kisf;fr; nra;gitapypUe;Jk; mtHfspypUe;Jk; mtHfs; mwpahjtw;wpypUe;Jk; Nrhbfisg; gilj;jhd;."" (36:36)
jpUkzk;> Jwtwk;> tpgrhuk;
kpUf cyfk;> jhtu cyfk; cl;gl Vida capupdq;fisg; nghWj;jtiuapy; mit ,ay;ghd ,df;ftHr;rpahy; ce;jg;gl;L ,dg;ngUf;fj;jpy; Rje;jpukhf <LgLfpd;wd. me;j Rje;jpuj;ij my;yh`; mtw;wpw;F toq;fpAs;shd;. kdpjidg; nghWj;jtiuapy; mtd; jdJ ghy; czHr;rpia vt;thW jPHj;Jf;nfhs;syhk; vd;w Nfs;tp ,q;F gpwf;fpd;wJ.
,d;iwa rkarhHgw;w - rlthj Nkw;Fyf fyhrhuk;> kdpjd; jdJ ghYzHr;rpiaj; jPHj;Jf; nfhs;s vj;jifa fl;Lg;ghLfNsh> tiuaiwfNsh> Md;kPf> jhHkPf xOq;FfNsh mtrpakpy;iy vdf; fUJfpd;wJ. jpUkzk;> tPL> FLk;gk; vd;gdnty;yhk; ngz;fis epue;jukhf mbikj;jdj;jpy; itj;jpUf;Fk; xU rhgNk md;wp Ntwpy;iy vd;gJ ,e;jf; fyhrhuj;jpd; epiyg;ghlhFk;. ,f;fUj;jpaypd; gaq;fu tpisTfis ,d;iwa cyfk; vt;thW mDgtpf;fpd;wJ vd;gij NkNy fz;Nlhk;.
kWgf;fj;jpy;> kdpjd; cly; ,r;iria KOikahf fl;Lg;gLj;jy; Ntz;Lk;. mJ kpUf czHthFk;. mJ Md;kPf tpNkhrdj;jpw;Fj; jilahdJ vd;W $Wk; Jwtwf; nfhs;ifiaAk; ,];yhk; mq;fPfupg;gjpy;iy. xUtifapy; Jwtwg;Nghf;iff; iff;nfhs;s Kaw;rp nra;j c];khd; ,g;D ko;Cd;> mg;Jy;yh`; ,g;D mk;upg;Dy; M]; Nghd;w egpj;NjhoHfis egpatHfs; vt;thW newpg;gLj;jpdhHfs; vd;gij tuyhw;wpy; ghHf;fpd;Nwhk;.
,];yhk; ghYzHit Rje;jpukhf> vj;jifa fl;Lg;ghLfSkpd;wpj; jPHj;Jf; nfhs;tij jilnra;tJ NghyNt rk;rhu tho;f;ifia Jwf;Fk; Jwtwj;ijAk; gpukr;rhupaj;ijAk; tpyf;fp> ,uz;bw;Fk; ,ilNa jpUkzk; vd;w xU newpia mikj;jpUf;fpd;wJ. kdpjd; nfsutkhdtd;. mtdJ vy;yh eltbf;iffSk; nfsutkhdjhfTk; ehfupfkhdjhfTk; mika Ntz;Lk; vd;gJ ,];yhj;jpd; epiyg;ghlhFk;. ,e;j tifapy; Mz;> ngz; cwT jpUkzk; vd;w cld;gbf;iff; $lhf Gdpjkhd xd;whf mikjy; Ntz;Lk; vd;W mJ typAWj;Jfpd;wJ.
jpUkz cld;gbf;ifapd;wp Vw;gLk; Mz; - ngz; cwit KiwNflhdJ vdf; fUJk; ,];yhk; mjid ']pdh" (tpgrhuk;) vd miof;fpd;wJ. ]pdh ,];yhj;jpd; ghHitapy; kpfg; nghpa ghtkhFk;. mjw;F kWikf;F Kd;dhy; cyfpNyNa jz;lid toq;fg;gl Ntz;Lk; vd;gJ ,];yhkpaf; nfhs;ifahFk;.
tpgrhuj;ijj; jilnra;Ak; ,];yhk; mj;Jld; epd;Wtplhky; mjw;fhd topfisAk; jilnra;fpd;wJ.
''ePq;fs; tpgrhuj;ij neUq;fTk; Ntz;lhk;. mJ khdf;NflhdjhfTk;> Nkhrkhd topKiwahfTk; ,Uf;fpd;wJ."" (17:32)
tpgr;rhuj;jpw;F toptFg;git
,t;tbg;gilapy; tpgr;rhuj;jpw;F ,l;Lr; nry;git vd;w tifapy; gpd;tUtd tpyf;fg;gl;Ls;sd:
,J gw;wp egpatHfs; gpd;tUkhW vr;rhpj;Js;shHfs;:
'my;yh`;itAk; kWik ehisAk; <khd; nfhz;ltH xU k`;uk; ,y;yhj epiyapy; xU ngz;Zld; jdpikapy; ,Uf;ff; $lhJ. mt;thW ,Ue;jhy; mtHfSld; %d;whktdhf i\j;jhd; ,Ug;ghd;." (m`;kj;)
'cq;fspy; xUtH xU k`;uk; ,y;yhky; xU ngz;Zld; jdpj;jpUf;f Ntz;lhk;." (Gfhhp> K];ypk;)
Fwpg;ghf xU ngz; jdJ fzthpd; rNfhjuHfs; Kjyhd neUq;fpa cwtpdHfSld; jdpj;jpUg;gJ> Rje;jpukhfg; goFtJ $lhJ. ,jid egpatHfs; kuzj;jpw;Fr; rkkhdJ vd tHzpj;Js;shHfs;. (ghHf;f ]`P`{y; Gfhhp)
2. mLj;j ghypdiu ,r;irAld; ghHj;jy;
Mz;fs; ngz;fisAk;> ngz;fs; Mz;fisAk; Rje;jpukhfg; ghHg;gijAk; urpg;gijAk; ,];yhk; xU ghtkhf fUJfpd;wJ. ,jdhy;jhd; ghHitia jho;j;jpf; nfhs;SkhWk;> fl;Lg;gLj;JkhWk; mJ gzpf;fpd;wJ. (ghHf;f: ]_wj;Jd; E}H 30>31)
'mypNa! xU ghHitiaj; njhlHe;J mLj;j ghHitiar; nrYj;jhjPH. Kjyhk; ghHit ckf;FhpaJ. mLj;jJ ckf;Fhpajy;y." (m`;kj;> mG+jhT+j;)
nfl;l ghHitia egpatHfs; ]pdh vd tHzpf;Fk; gpd;tUk; `jP]; ftdj;jpw;nfhs;sj;jf;fjhFk;:
',U fz;fSk; tpgrhuk; nra;fpd;wd. mit nra;Ak; tpgrhuk; ghHitahFk;." (Gfhhp)
3. mt;uj;ij fhl;LtJk;> ghHg;gJk;
mt;uj;ij ntspf;fhl;LtJk; mjidg; ghHg;gJk; JHelj;ijf;Fj; J}z;Lgit vd;w tifapy; ,];yhk; XH Mz; clk;gpy; kiwf;f Ntz;ba gFjp vd;d vd;gJ gw;wpAk;> xU ngz; kiwf;f Ntz;ba gFjp ahJ vd;gJ gw;wpAk; tphpthf tpsf;Ffpd;wJ.
,t;thW ghypay; rPHNfLfSf;fhd vy;yh topfisAk; milj;Js;s ,];yhk;> kWgf;fj;jpy; kdpjd; jdJ czHr;rpiaj; jPHj;Jf;nfhs;tjw;F GdpjkhdJk; nfsutkhdJkhd jpUkzk; vd;w xOq;if mwpKfk; nra;Js;sJ.
,];yhj;jpd; xspapy; jpUkzj;jpdhy; tpisAk; ed;ikfis gpd;tUkhW milahsg;gLj;jyhk;:
jpUkzj;jpd; %yk; fpl;Lk; epk;kjpiaAk; epiwitAk; gw;wp my;FHMd; gpd;tUkhW tpsf;Ffpd;wJ
''ePq;fs; (mikjp) MWjy; ngWtjw;Fhpa Jizia cq;fspy; ,Ue;Nj cq;fSf;fhf mtd; gilj;jpUg;gJk;> cq;fSf;fpilNa md;igAk; fpUigiaAk; Vw;gLj;jp ,Ug;gJk; mtDila mj;jhl;rpfspy; cs;sjhFk;."" (30:21)
FLk;g tho;it mr;RWj;Jk; mk;rq;fs;
,y;yw tho;Tf;Fk; mjd; Eiothapyhd jpUkzj;jpw;Fk; mr;RWj;jyhf mikAk; mk;rq;fis mwpe;J nfhs;tJ gaDs;sjhFk;.
JHelj;ij
tpgrhuk;> jd;dpdr;NrHf;if Kjyhd KiwNflhd Mz; - ngz; cwTfs; FLk;gk; vd;w rpwpa r%fj;ijj; jfHf;ff;$bait ahFk;. ,aw;if epajpf;Fk; ,iw epajpf;Fk; Kuzhd ,j;jifa cwTfs; FLk;g mikjpiaf; Fiyj;J rKjhaj;ijr; rPuopf;Fk; gaq;fu <dr;nray;fshFk;. ,t;thwhd ,opnray;fspy; <LgLNthH jpUkzj;jpy; Miraw;W> ,y;yw tho;tpy; tpUg;gkw;wtuhf ,Ug;gH. ,tHfs; jpUkzk; nra;Jnfhz;lhYk; jkJ kidtpkhiug; Gwf;fzpg;Nghuhf ,Ug;gH. ,jdhy; ngz;fs; csuPjpahf ghjpf;fg;gl;L mtHfs; kj;jpapYk; gy rPHNfLfs; Njhd;w topgpwf;Fk;. ,j;jifa epiyapy; fztd;> kidtpf;fpilNa tphpry; cUthfp Foe;ijfspd; ey;tho;T ghjpf;fg;gLk;. nkhj;jj;jpy; FLk;g epWtdk; rPHFiye;J r%f tho;T rpd;dhgpd;dkhfp tpLk;.
,it jtpu> KiwNflhd ghypay; cwTfshy; vj;jifa gaq;fu Neha;fs; Njhd;Wfpd;wd vd;gij ,d;iwa kUj;Jt cyfk; vLj;Jf; $Wfpd;wJ. Nkf Neha; Kjyhd gy;NtWgl;l Nkhrkhd ghypay; Neha;fs; ,d;W cyf Rfhjhuj;ij mr;RWj;jpa tz;zk; ,Uf;fpd;wd. ,d;W cyifNa Ml;b itf;Fk; gaq;fu Ml;nfhy;yp Neha; va;l;]pd; njhlf;fg;Gs;sp KiwNfhlhd ghypay; cwTfs; vd;gij mwpahtjtH vtUk; ,y;iy. kdNeha;fs; cUthtjw;Fk; KiwNflhd ghypay; cwTfs; fhuzkhf mikfpd;wd vd;gJ ,d;W ep&gpf;fg;gl;l XH cz;ikahFk;. ,j;jifa fhuzq;fSf;fhfNt ,];yhk; KiwNflhd ghypay; cwTfis kpff; fLikahf fz;bj;J jilnra;Js;sJ.
Xhpdr;NrHf;if
Vwj;jho Iahapuk; tUlq;fSf;F Kd;dhy; jd;dpdr;NrHf;if vd;w juq;nfl;l nraypy; <Lgl;l egp Y}j; (miy) mtHfspd; r%fj;ijg; gw;wpf; Fwpg;gpLk; my;FHMd; mtHfspd; ,f;Fw;wr; nray;fspd; fhuzkhf mtHfs; vt;thW gaq;fukhfj; jz;bf;fg;gl;lhHfs; vd;gij vLj;Jr; nrhy;fpd;wJ. (ghHf;f: ]_wj;J m\;\{muh : 172-174)
kdpjdpd; kdj;ijAk; Fzj;ijAk; ,ay;igAk; ,iwj;njhlHigAk; nfLj;J> ,k;ik> kWik <Uyf tho;itAk; gho;gLj;jf;$ba Xupdr;NrHf;if vd;w Fw;wr; nraypy; <LgLgtHfSf;F kuzjz;lid tpjpf;fg;gl Ntz;Lnkd;gJ \uPMtpd; rl;lj;jPHg;ghFk;.
tpgrhuk;
Xhpdr;NrHf;ifiag; NghyNt tpgrhuKk; ,];yhkpa Nehf;fpy; kpfg; nghpa ghtKk; Fw;wr; nraYkhFk;. ,];yhk; tpgrhuj;ij kl;Lkd;wp mjw;F J}z;Ljy; toq;Ffpd;w midj;ijAk; tpyf;fpAs;sJ. ,e;j tifapy; ehk; NkNy Fwpg;gpl;lJ Nghy> XH Mz; me;epa ngz;Zld; my;yJ xU ngz; me;epa MZld; jdpj;jpUj;jy;> Mz;fs; - ngz;fs; Rje;jpukhfg; goFjy; Mfpatw;Wld; eldk;> Mghrg; glq;fs;> ghly;fs;> juf;Fiwthd ,yf;fpag; gilg;Gf;fs;> nfl;l ghHit> fhjy; Nghd;wtw;iwAk; ,];yhk; `uhkhf;fpAs;sJ.
tpgrhuj;ij Mff; $ba jz;lid toq;fg;glNtz;ba Fw;wkhf ,];yhk; fUJfpd;wJ. ,];yhkpa \hPmj; mKypy; cs;s ,lj;jpy; Xh; MNzh ngz;Nzh tpgrhuk; Ghpe;jhy; mtUf;Ff; fy;nywpe;J nfhy;Yk; jz;lid toq;fg;gl Ntz;Lk;. jpUkzkhfhjtUf;F jyh E}W firab toq;fg;gl Ntz;Lk; vd;gJ ,];yhj;jpd; jPHg;ghFk;.
tpgrhuj;jpdhy; tpisAk; Md;kPf> kWikg; ghjpg;Gf;fs; gw;wp tpsf;Fk; egpnkhopfSk; cz;L. mtw;Ws; gpd;tUtd Fwpg;gplj;jf;fitahFk;:
'xUtH tpgrhuk; nra;Ak; epiyapy; K/kpdhf ,Uf;f khl;lhH" (Gfhhp> K];ypk;)
'tpgrhuj;ij ,l;L cq;fis vr;rhpf;fpd;Nwd;. mjpy; ehd;F tpisTfs; ,Uf;fpd;wd. mitahtd:
Kfj;jpd; trPfuj;ij ePf;fptpLk;
tUkhdj;ij mWj;JtpLk;
u`;khdpd; Nfhgj;ijg; ngw;Wf; nfhLf;Fk;
eufpy; epiyj;jpUf;f toptFf;Fk;" (Mjhuk; : mj;jguhzp)
vdNt> jfhj ghypay; njhlHG clyhNuhf;fpaj;ijf; nfLf;fpd;wJ. cs;sj;ijf; nfLf;fpd;wJ. mwpitAk;> Md;khitAk; ghjpf;fpd;wJ. jdpkdpjid mopj;J> FLk;gtho;it Fl;br;Rtuhf;fp tpLfpd;wJ. ,Wjpapy; KOr%f tho;;Tf;Fk; Ntl;L itf;fpwJ. ,];yhk; kdpjdJ ,ay;ghd ghYzHr;rpiaj; jPHj;Jf;nfhs;sNt gz;ghlhd jpUkzk; vd;w xOq;ifj; je;Js;sJ. `uhkhdtw;iw ehlNtz;ba mtrpak; ,y;yhj msTf;F ,e;j jPDf;$lhf midj;ijAk; `yhyhf;fp je;jpUg;gJ my;yh`;;tpd; NguUshFk;.